LIFE JOURNAL #125 : ITS OKAY TO BE NOT OKAY

It’s ok not to be ok.

And only when we allow feelings to live, 

we will then allow them to leave. 

When it’s come to help other people, 

I believe that many times, 

listening with presence and empathy 

can be more influential and life changing 

than talking or giving advice. 

To truly help someone we should 

have more desire to listening to them 

and learning about them more than having

 the desire to say opinion and giving our advice. 

I’m not saying that giving advice is a bad thing,

it’s just it needs the right moments 

and the right timing for that to take place. 

What I mean is, 

an advice is best given when 

the person needed help is asking for it. 

What would that be the best timing, 

because when a person is asking for advices,

 and we give them that empowering - uplifting - brilliant advices, 

that person needed helps would be ready to receive, 

would be ready to have a change of mindset 

and putting that advice into real action to

 changes themselves and their live for better.

#bahagiadengancukup

LIFE JOURNAL #124 : SPECIAL POST!

its been a hectic years for me 

to not-remembering all my past. 

i am feeling so grateful 

to know that i survived till this far..

but for once in a blue moon,

no matter how hard you try not to fall for someone

no matter how hard you tell yourself not to give up

when the times come, 

it will!

and you cant stop that feelings.

try to accept things as it is

eventho it didn't ended well as we want it to be.

its okay.

just dont be sad.

its just another milestones for you to rise

in life,

the true meaning of happiness

isn't always about how much you get in return

from the person you love/like/crush.

but sometime 

its about how much you willing to give to them.

coz some people, 

they willing to do anything to make themselves happy

even if it mean to impress

but often they dont get as much as they gave in retun

some people didnt know how to appreciate

and they take things for granted

please be calm for a while.

be grateful

always be grateful in every little things u have

thats all you have to do.

you don't have to win all the time

i realized that in order to be happy,

even if we didn't be with the person we like/love

it isn't about how much love we can give to them

its about how well we make them happy

its about how much we accept them in good or bad

its about how well we treated them

and never wanting anything in return

and if happened you've done something wrong

never forget to ask for forgiveness

its doesn't make you less man to say sorry

it takes courage to admit your mistakes

lower down your ego

give them time to reschedule with their life-track

never push them

to see them happy..

its means everything to me :)

i am sorry 

for every single bad things I've done to you

i wont let that happened again

i will be happy to see you happy

#bahagiadengancukup