It’s ok not to be ok.
And only when we allow feelings to live,
we will then allow them to leave.
When it’s come to help other people,
I believe that many times,
listening with presence and empathy
can be more influential and life changing
than talking or giving advice.
To truly help someone we should
have more desire to listening to them
and learning about them more than having
the desire to say opinion and giving our advice.
I’m not saying that giving advice is a bad thing,
it’s just it needs the right moments
and the right timing for that to take place.
What I mean is,
an advice is best given when
the person needed help is asking for it.
What would that be the best timing,
because when a person is asking for advices,
and we give them that empowering - uplifting - brilliant advices,
that person needed helps would be ready to receive,
would be ready to have a change of mindset
and putting that advice into real action to
changes themselves and their live for better.