It’s
ok not to be ok.
And
only when we allow feelings to live, 
we
will then allow them to leave. 
When it’s come to
help other people, 
I believe that
many times, 
listening with
presence and empathy 
can be
more influential and life changing 
than talking or
giving advice. 
To truly help
someone we should 
have more desire
to listening to them 
and learning about
them more than having
 the desire
to say opinion and giving our advice. 
I’m not saying
that giving advice is a bad thing,
it’s just it needs
the right moments 
and the right
timing for that to take place. 
What I mean is, 
an advice is best
given when 
the person needed
help is asking for it. 
What would that be
the best timing, 
because when a
person is asking for advices,
 and we give
them that empowering - uplifting - brilliant advices, 
that person needed
helps would be ready to receive, 
would be ready to
have a change of mindset 
and putting
that advice into real action to
 changes
themselves and their live for better.
#bahagiadengancukup
 


 
 
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